The characteristics of type A love-duality

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Type A people are very cautious and don't easily show their thoughts in front of others. Even if someone shows love to themselves, they generally don't react easily. Type A people are most afraid of being deceived when they fall in love, so they are generally wary of their partners. In addition, Type A people have strong self-esteem and are afraid of being rejected and abandoned. This is what hurts their hearts the most.

In choosing a spouse, type A people generally do not pay much attention to appearance, nor do they value the intelligence of each other as much as type O people. Because they are most afraid of being deceived, the first thing they consider is their "sense of security" and hope they can trust a life partner. They generally like to be honest, simple, and straightforward. Love is looking for people who don’t bother themselves and who can get spiritual comfort. Type A people, both men and women, seem to choose stupid people as their lovers. It's not that they have a preference and specifically look for stupid people, but because their prerequisite for choosing a spouse is that they would rather live a balanced life in the future than a sensitive lover who is flexible and reactive. What seems to be contradictory to this is that once they meet someone who can understand themselves, they will immediately fall in love. This is because Type A people want to be perfect and are perfectionists. They are often troubled by others' prejudices and incorrect evaluations of themselves. The hardest thing in the world is to understand people. If you are too sensitive in this regard, there will be no time for peace of mind. Because of this, when Type A people think that the other person is someone who understands them, their hearts will be drawn to them immediately.

The recent tendency to fall in love is that both men and women require each other to be gentle and considerate; this is especially true for type A people. This is because gentleness and consideration are generally regarded as symbols of understanding. Living with people with this kind of disposition can be at ease, maintaining self-esteem and being able to rely on each other.

Generally speaking, the love of type A people is a steadily and gradual development of love, and there is no expression of the passionate love of type O people. They pay attention to the natural expression of feelings, and like to disclose their care and love for each other through dating. Type A people pay attention to the atmosphere and emotions of love, and like to have rendezvous in hidden places, but they will not easily become impulsive because of this. In a quiet and pleasant environment, exchange feelings, deepen understanding, and gradually consolidate mutual love; when excited, there will be occasional expressions of intimacy.

Type A people are so infatuated

If the love of a type A person burns into a raging flame, its appearance will become completely different from that of peaceful love.

Contrary to the oil fire of type O people, I liken the flame of love of type A people to coal fire. Compared with oil, coal catches fire slowly and usually burns quietly. When we were young, the most nostalgic thing in winter was the coal stove in the classroom. During the break between classes, the students were chatting around the stove while drying their hands. The atmosphere was kind of like the love of Type A people. I remember a few times that the raging fire caused the furnace body to become red because of excessive coal. Encountered a broken stove, it burned away early.

Once the love of a Type A person erupts with flames, its firepower far exceeds the burning of oil, and there is a danger of burning down one's life and everything.

"It's not that he (she) does not marry (marry)", infatuation, is the portrayal of type A person's love.

Type A people who fall in love, in their eyes, each other's words and actions are beautiful, and everything is understood from the good side, and the other's defects or bad places are completely gone. A veritable blind love.

Why is this? One of the reasons is probably the aforementioned begging for understanding. When they are uncomprehensible and depressed, and suddenly feel that someone sympathizes with them, Type A people will fall in love and hate each other. Sometimes they just feel that the other person may be their sympathizer, and they will suddenly ignite the flame of emotion. This mood is more likely to occur among Type A people.

Another reason is that type A people have a cult of worship for people who have (or may have) things they don't have. Such people have a strong attraction to them. This may also be due to the fact that the desire for perfection cannot be fulfilled, causing a pitiful and eager mood. They tend to correct their behavior with strong self-esteem and don't want to fall into another state of mind. At this time, they are dizzy, unable to distinguish front to back, sometimes both elope, and there may also be a love tragedy in which they die together. Such incidents are prone to occur between type A people and other blood types, especially between type A people and type B people.

Type A people seem to be serious, but actually love to pursue the opposite sex

In terms of sexual relations, Type A people are also biased towards restraint. Although there are some people who speak spring language out of the service consciousness of Type A people, they sound a bit awkward and clumsy, and the people around them are also embarrassed.

However, people think that type A people are most interested in sexual relations in their hearts. Maybe they can be given a nickname called "Taciturn and Lecher"-this is a bit too mean. Many Type A people lose control after drinking and become very inferior. Compared with usual, they look like two people. Some like to play tricks with prostitutes. I heard that these people also spend a lot of time in engaging in sexual relations.

However, there are still a few Type A people who can have fun at will. Because Type A people always have to consider social and secular taboos, discord, illness, opinions of others, pregnancy worries, etc. Therefore, there is no shortage of decent people among Type A people.

However, in this regard, Type A people still seem to have their duality. Type A people will seriously consider the issue of sex for those who are in love with them. And deal with it honestly. In other words, they regard the sexual relationship as the proof and guarantee of love, and are responsible for the sexual relationship; at the same time, they also require the other party to be responsible. The pre-marital sexual relationship with Type A objects tends to further strengthen the bond of love and become an opportunity to promote love. This phenomenon is not uncommon. ( Blood Type and Personality http:///xx/) (Blood Type and Personality http:///xx/)

The emphasis on sexual intercourse is even more pronounced in Type A people. Pay attention to the reaction of the other party during sex, and be governed by the sense of service. Generally, there are few unilateral actions (except in the naive period). It's just that Type A people are not good at talking about sex, especially women, because of their self-esteem, they won't take the initiative to ask for sex. As a result, many people have a sense of sexual insecurity and misfortune.