Body language

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Body language

Body language is a combination of actions, gestures, and habits that communicate specific information in various situations and in any environment. If you listen carefully to others and observe their body movements and facial expressions, you will know whether they are lying or telling the truth; whether they like you or dislike you. You will also know if they are in agreement or insincere.

Our body will not lie, your body will tell you the true situation of yourself and others. Gestures, standing postures and body postures can all explain some problems, because these are signals that your body wants to express certain depressed emotions. Every gesture and movement clearly conveys your true feelings.

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If you like a person, you tend to lean towards him. This is a sign that you are interested in him and his words. When you are very interested, your body will lean forward and your legs will tend to retract back. If someone leans toward you while sitting, it means that he is being friendly to you. When you don't like someone, you feel bored or uncomfortable with someone, you tend to lean back.

Imitate other people's actions

To know if you are attractive to others, just see if they imitate your actions. If you imitate each other's body language, then it is possible that one or both of you have a good impression of each other. Imitating others means that you want to be like the other person.

Shake back and forth

This action shows that someone is impatient or anxious. Adults use this method to calm themselves when they are uncomfortable shaking back and forth, or when they are anxious.

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If someone is irritable, it means that the person is suggesting to others that he is feeling very uncomfortable, or that something makes him very irritable. Maybe he didn't tell the truth, or he wanted to leave the place where he was staying.

Head tilted

Turning your head to the side shows that the person is very interested and is listening to what you are saying. You have attracted all his attention, and he is listening to you intently.

Head stretched forward

The head stretched forward indicated an imminent threat. Like a forward chin, this is an offensive gesture, suggesting that someone is preparing to take an offensive or hostile approach to the problem at hand.

Scratch your head

If it's not for lice or dandruff, scratching your head means someone is confused or unsure about something.

Shrug

When people shrug, it means they are not telling the truth, not being candid, or feeling indifferent. People who are lying tend to shrug quickly. In this case, shrugging is not hostile, but subconsciously trying to be very calm, but in fact it did not achieve this effect.

Stance reaction emotion

Posture reflects how you think about yourself and others. A confident standing posture is often with your back straight, shoulders open back, head straight, and hips tightened. People who look confident in their postures tend to feel as comfortable when they hang out with their friends in the high street and at social occasions. They will vividly use their hands and arms to help express their opinions. On the other hand, different postures represent different emotions.

Hunched over and sluggish posture

If someone is sad, they tend to hunch over and languish. Folded shoulders are a sign of obedience and a sign of lack of confidence or frustration. It is said that such people carry heavy burdens. If someone keeps this posture all the time, it means escaping from a certain situation or the whole life. It may also mean that the person is not interested in you or what you say. The person's body is not leaning forward, but backward-this is an escape from the quarrel.

Leaning forward

If someone leans forward and their neck stretches forward, it is certain that the person is angry. The lower jaw may also be pushed forward, fists clenched. Even the muscles will be tense. This is a posture to attack. If someone walks in a hurry and dives forward, then you can quickly make a judgment—the person is angry.

Stiff posture

People with a rigid posture like a soldier are often conservative and stubborn in decision-making views. They often think that a thing is either black or white, or either, this kind of person is inherently domineering. Their expressions are often very snobbish, and their attitude is also the kind of "I am better than you" style. Their necks are straight, in a typical despising posture. They appreciate cleanliness and order, and it is difficult for them to behave comfortably outside of their familiar environment.

Pretentious posture

Such people are very artificial, like posing, and always care about whether others are paying attention to themselves. They kiss each other on your cheek, or each on your cheek, just to know who is watching them perform. Although they seem to be very snobbish and arrogant, they are actually very insecure, very shy, and very selfish. They are very narcissistic and think that life is centered on them.

Introverted posture

When others don't like you or disagree with you, they will behave a lot, and the body will do the same. First of all, their posture will be more restrained, such as: straight head and upper body, at the same time, holding arms with both hands. If they are sitting, their legs may cross their knees.

Neutral posture

People who have no opinion about you, or have not made a final decision about something, will put their hands in front of them while standing. If they are sitting, they will cross their hands on their knees and cross their legs above the knees to adopt a wait-and-see attitude. Part of their body adopts a very candid posture, such as: head and torso are straight, arms open; while another part of the body is very convergent, such as: hands on the knees, fingers not crossed, legs tightly crossed Above the knees.

Boring posture

When people are bored or indifferent to anything, they will first turn their heads away, and then finally turn their whole body away.

The ten fingers will cross together, and the hands will rest on the knees. If they feel bored more and more, their heads will be biased, and they will often have to use their hands to support them.

A very boring body posture is usually leaning backwards, and the legs are stretched very straight. If the person is standing, put his hands in front, cross his fingers, and tilt his head to one side.

Meaningful arms

The posture of the arm has a lot of meaning, and they will tell you the emotional changes of someone. By understanding the meaning of different arm postures, it can help us understand the information conveyed by the arm.

Crossed arms

This is a defensive posture, indicating that someone feels uncomfortable and wants to protect themselves. This may also mean that the person is alienating you. When someone feels unsafe, he tends to occupy less physical space.

If people with arms on their chests say they use this method to uphold their opinions and encourage themselves, it actually means that they will reject any position you offer. Accompanying this posture are tension and anxiety. Hugging your arms on your chest also made it very obvious what this person wanted to hide. So when you see someone cross their arms on their chest, it means that the person wants to retreat. Women with full breasts or people who feel uncomfortable often adopt this position.

Hands on hips

If you put your hands on your hips and your elbows protrude from your sides, it means "keep away from me" or "don't stay with me". As the anthropologist Desmond Maurice said, this is a "posture that refuses to embrace." This is also a very confident and self-reliant performance.

If someone wants to exclude others from small circles in social situations, he will convey this message by placing a hand on the hip.

Open arms

Putting your hands behind your back means frankness. People with this posture are actually implying that they don't need to protect themselves. This posture is an expression of confidence. Soldiers often put their hands together and put them behind their backs when they rest. They are relaxed and honest, with nothing to hide.

Waving arm

In many Mediterranean and Western cultures, waving arms is used as part of normal communication to help express a certain point of view in a conversation. But in Western culture, waving an arm has a completely different meaning. It means that someone cannot control himself, is very emotional, or is very angry.

Emotional hands

How to place your hands is a very good indicator of someone’s emotional state. Here are the meanings of some gestures.

Hidden hands

If someone hides his hands while talking—for example, put it in his pocket—he may be concealing some very important information, something important to the individual that he does not want to show.

Angry hands

A clenched fist often means that the person does not want to express his emotions. Whenever you see someone holding a fist while speaking, then that person must be angry or sad. If the thumb is hidden in the fist, the person usually feels dangerous, scared or worried. When you make a fist, your thumbs clasped together, just like embracing your hands, which is also a way of self-protection. Pointing out with your index finger when speaking, or moving around quickly, this also implies that someone is buried in anger.

Lying hands

The hand movements of an unfrank person usually lack expressiveness. The hands are either clenched fists, closed, or placed in pockets. Pay attention to how tight someone holds their hands when speaking: tighter means more nervous.

When someone grasps something, such as a chair, it seems to hold onto reality tightly. People who love self-control are often nervous and insecure. In fact, they really want to control some other things. Therefore, to do this, they may lie or try to avoid experiencing some very strong emotions.

Honest hands

Conversely, when someone is honest, his palm is usually spread out and his fingers are straight. This shows the person's frankness and interest in others. This is a gesture of accepting others. It means that this person is willing to get to know you and welcome you and your opinions. The open palm also means that you are more susceptible to the influence of others. Conversely, a person with the back of his hand is usually not very good at accepting others, is not honest enough, and is withdrawn and conservative.

Stubborn hands

If you see someone’s thumb is stiff, and the other fingers are stretched straight, or clenched into a fist, it means that the person is clinging to his point of view. It is very difficult for someone with this gesture to accept your point of view.

Impatient hands

Tap your fingers on the table or tap your hands on the table, which shows that the person is impatient or nervous. Also, constantly fiddle with things in his hands, it shows that this person is very insecure, very nervous, and very upset. It shows that such people are not confident, and need to touch some real things to feel comfortable.

Oppressive hands

Broken nails, gnawing or tearing off dead skin on your hands, twisting your hands together, and fiddling with something uneasily, these are all signs of restlessness. Although people's inner turmoil may not be obvious in the conversation, the above unconscious movements are what people like to do when they feel oppressive. These actions can also mean anger and frustration.

Hands that feel very comfortable

If someone feels comfortable, this feeling can be reflected in his hands. The hand movements are strong and calm, but smooth and not at all mechanical. Holding your hands tightly behind your head, or holding your hands on your hips is an expression of your sense of security, which means that they feel comfortable and at ease.

Confident hands

A confident person often has many hand movements that reflect self-confidence. Crossing your fingers into a tower is a gesture of confidence. Teachers, politicians, lawyers, and those who spread information often use this gesture. People also use this gesture when negotiating.