See through the "little people" in the workplace and adjust interpersonal relationships

See through the "little people" in the workplace and adjust interpersonal relationships

If you encounter colleagues who do not cooperate or scold yourself in front of your boss at work, this is commonly known as a "criminal villain." No matter how you help your colleagues or take care of them, they will retaliate with grievances. This is also a "criminal villain." I believe that no one has never encountered a "little man" in his life. Sometimes the harm of a "little man" to people cannot be expressed in words. In fact, there are many kinds of "little people" in specific analysis.

In 2012, I received continuous inquiries from friends, how can I resolve the "little man"? Even two friends sent me an article at the same time to cause the topic of "little man" to be resolved. Below, I will quote this article as follows.

What worries you most when sitting in the office every day? I believe many white-collar workers will call them "little people". My good friend Xinru called me at noon one day. She used a low octave tones and said mysteriously: "A Ling, please tell you something. The colleague sitting across from me put on the table today. I have a cactus, I don’t know if it’s a geomantic formation?" I said: "Haha, what does it have to do with you when others put cacti?

Said it is a Feng Shui master? The cactus ball is used to transform the villain, and it also acts as an'attack'. To be honest, at the end of 2011, the business manager with the best performance can be promoted to the regional manager after the company's assessment at the end of 2011. In our group, she and I have the best chance..."

After listening to her intently, I understand that Xinru is afraid of other people's "secret moves" that will make her manager position insecure. Nowadays, social competition is fierce, and it is common to use "feng shui formations" to grab business and compete for status. I thought for a while and asked, "Is her cactus facing you? Is the cactus on her left or right? Is the cactus on the computer or the phone?" She immediately replied, "That ball is not Right in front of me, what I saw when I walked to her desk was placed on her left hand, next to the computer!".

I relaxed after hearing this: "Haha, it seems that you are seeing the abdomen of a gentleman from the perspective of a villain. There is a saying in feng shui that if you don’t see a cactus, it doesn’t exist. In Feng Shui, the green dragon on the left represents the nobleman's side, and the white tiger on the right is the villain's side. Therefore, the feng shui products of Hua Xiaoren will not be placed on the left hand side. It works, and the biggest thing she put next to the computer is probably to reduce the computer’s radiation!" She was a little embarrassed after listening

I think, but I must be able to work with peace of mind.

In fact, Xinru's "multi-heartedness" is also human nature, and there are indeed a lot of traps in the current office. In this way, I am here to tell you some simple ways to "turn the villain" in the office. Preventing the villain is nothing more than changing the tongue. You can refer to the following methods.

Try not to place telephones and magazines on the right hand side of the desk;

? Place a stone on the right hand side. As for the cactus mentioned above, it is actually not suitable to be placed on the desk, which is harmful to people and even more unfavorable;

? In the "three blues" of Xuankong Feixing every year, nine red flowers are inserted in the hands to resolve them. If you feel that the red flowers are too ostentatious, you can use nine red decorations to resolve them.

In addition, from another perspective, the most effective way to dissolve the "little man" is to strengthen the trust and appreciation of the boss and superiors. The easiest way is to put eight small stones or a big round stone behind the office chair. If you are not allowed, you can put a "brown" dress on the chair as a second step.

"Guiling a villain" in the unit is one of the most troublesome things. Even if you try to help your colleagues and take care of them, they will repay virtue with grievances. So, what are the office layouts that are prone to villains?

The white tiger position is not clean: standing in the office facing the door, the wall on his right is the right white tiger position, and the left is the green dragon position. The white tiger is the leader of the villain. In this position, the villain is in charge. Therefore, the position of the white tiger should be clean and should not be occupied by dirty and messy people.

Office sofa back door: The position of office sofa is very important! Many company leaders do not realize this. Office sofas cannot be placed behind the door, otherwise it is easy to offend villains.

Irregular desks: Usually desks should be rectangular or square. Nowadays, some companies pursue fashion and use irregular or gourd-shaped desks. This often leads to an endless stream of villains in the team.

Irregular office: Irregular or missing corners in an office are prone to generate small groups of people, which can lead to conflicts between teams and a lot of right and wrong.

Office room configuration does not emphasize privacy: there should be compartments between company executives, otherwise they will be blocked by villains. In addition, pay attention to whether the chair or general manager’s seat is behind a window. If it is a window, it is recommended to seal it with a partition, otherwise it means it is easy to offend villains.

There are beams in the office: beams will cause the villains to be in power, and employees will be suspicious of each other. Use the five emperors white jade to transform the evil spirit of the villain.

After reading the above six items, please take a mirror and take a closer look at whether your eyebrows are black or blue or have scars and acne marks. Because from the analysis of numerology, if it is, then it means: either you are easily framed by villains or pulled back by others; or unfortunately you have been "ridden by villains." At this time, please take a good look at the situation around your office and quickly resolve it. The following are the eight magic weapons to resolve the villain.

Resolve method 1: Azure Dragon and Dragon Tortoise Transformation Villain are the most powerful. The dragon can transform the villain, increase the luck and popularity of the noble; the folly of the dragon tortoise is longevity and health, it can also transform the evil spirits, fight the evil spirits, and most importantly increase wealth. Dragon tortoise can promote wealth when placed in the position of wealth, and it is most effective when placed in the position of three evils or in places with heavier moisture. Wei Li believes that "you must send out quickly and fight against three evils." Generally, dragon turtles are placed on the desks in the bedroom and office. Especially if you are not going well at work, are squeezed out by villains, or your boss doesn’t like it, put a dragon tortoise on your desk at the appropriate time, and you will be appreciated by your help and boss. smoothly. In addition to placing it in the company, it is also placed in the living room of the home, which can complement each other and play a bigger role.

effect. Some dragon tortoise artifacts have movable backs, which can be lifted up and put in tea and rice grains to enhance their effects.

Resolve method two: plum money, that is, (obscure) ignorance potential. At the beginning of the promotion, the old habits are not eliminated, and in the new position, the habits of the predecessor are not eliminated; the old vices and the villain belong to the ignorance! The method of ignorance is to be transformed and hidden, and it is the right method! The reason is: plum money! Put it behind the office chair or on the wall against it to prevent the villain from being slandered on the back. Of course, you can also put it in the drawer that you frequently open and close, especially the important documents that you often access or the filing cabinets of the ongoing big project, which is conducive to the development of your business. The newly promoted senior executives are very useful. This is the best feng shui pendulum for promoted villains.

Solution three: copper seal. The copper bell is an authentic thing to resolve the villain. It is usually hung on the doorknob of the front door to dissolve the evil spirits and the villains to keep the house safe. Note that the red gossip pattern printed on the copper bell has a better effect.

Resolve method four: pink prosperous popularity. In terms of position, pink helps to dissolve the influence of villains and increase popularity, so you might as well place a pink card in the northwest of your home, or insert 9 pink roses, or put any pink objects. Help you become popular. If you want to prevent villains in the office, you can also put pink objects in the northwest. If you have a room, you can put stone pebbles behind the chair. If you don’t have a room, you can put a coffee-colored dress behind the chair to create a self-made backing effect.

Resolve method five: Tiger wear upper body. If you want to avoid the infringement of villains, you can wear any tiger-patterned ornament on your body, whether it is a photo of a tiger, a keychain with tiger footprints, or a cartoon tiger mascot. A picture or picture of a tiger can also be placed in the northeast, which also has the effect of preventing villains. However, I would like to pay special attention to the fact that the tiger is the main culprit, so it must be used with caution.

Solution 6: You can place "Stone Gandang" on the northeast side of the office or house to resolve the three-dimensional wood gas and reduce the duplicity.

Resolve Method Seven: Consecrated gold inlaid with jade Guanyin can also be used, because it can prosper wealth and help prevent villains. Note that the consecration must go to the temple to choose a day, not careless.

Solution Eight: If you want to increase your luck in addition to the villain. I suggest you use Fenjing to prosper, that is, in the west

For the peach blossoms in the north, put a red vase with 2 or 7 red flowers. If you want to help love luck, use red roses, and then surround the outside of the vase with 9 amethysts to promote popularity; of course, you can also use carnations or lilies, or you can put 9 pink crystals on the outer ring of the vase, remember to put it in the vase Write down your wishes on paper.

Finally, what I want to say to my friends is that no one has never encountered a villain in his life. The only difference lies in the number of villains and what kind of harm they can cause. We should face them instead of avoiding the villains. Only by facing them can we understand the crux of the problem.

Materialist dialectics tells us that everything is relative and can be transformed in the opposite direction. Therefore, the biggest trick to dissolve the villain is to "turn the enemy into a friend" and turn the villain into a nobleman. Only by fighting against the villain can you become a true gentleman. There is a saying that goes like this: If you play chess against the cockroach, if you win, you will also lose; if you play chess against a master, you will also win if you lose.

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