If people want to live longer, they should have a thicker skin

As the saying goes: "I have no heart and no lungs, and I am not tired when I live." First, it means that if you live stupidly and stupidly, you will not feel too tired to live; second, you can live without being too defiant and being good at being a mortal. Have a long life. I think these two sayings have some truth.

If people want to live longer, they should have a thicker skin. Even if you have done bad things and made mistakes, don't have trouble with yourself. Many people even commit suicide because of their face. On the road of life, it is inevitable that anyone can only do good things and not do bad things, and see if they can do bad things and accept the lesson, and change from a bad person to a good person. "People want face, trees want bark." Originally, this is the virtue of being a human being, but you can't overdo it. If you want face too much, you can sometimes harm yourself, and you don't have to do it completely right. To be shameless is to avoid faces that are harmful to your health.

To be considered a little lower alive, whether from an official to a commoner, or from a rich man to a pauper, in order to ensure your health, you have to be a little bit "salary and brave". Don't ruin yourself just because of your useless face. life. To achieve this goal, I think the following four points should be done:

1. Be spicy. People are lively and vigorous, and if they are less embarrassed, they can open up the situation in life and do a good job in society. Not only can they live a wealthy life, but they can also be healthy and healthy. Especially women , those who are aggressive, live better, live long and happy lives.

2. Be chic. Open your heart, and enjoy as much as you want. Don't restrain yourself. Some old people don't dare to show up boldly in new clothes. The new clothes are on the inside and the old ones are on the outside. This is not a chic enough performance. With money, eating well, dressing, and having fun, I don’t think there is anything wrong with it, so why not do it! It should be the attitude of daily life.

3. Less shame. Just to jump out of the circle of feudal thought, don’t be ashamed to participate in certain social activities, such as dancing, making friends with men and women, and behave in a decent manner. Don’t be afraid of someone opposing to speak bad things, let alone feel shame yourself, and cause mental disorder. Good, cause disease and damage health.

4. A little thicker skin. We live in a complex society with all kinds of people. We may encounter trouble or resistance in doing everything, or there may be jealous people, or even be attacked and abused, so don’t take your face too much. The skin should be thicker. Otherwise, the heart will be upset, the career will not be done well, or even interruption will naturally damage your health.

When people are "shameless", what are they afraid of? With such a spirit, not only can they do great things, but they can also ensure their health.