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Unpleasant erotic dreams

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Unpleasant erotic dreams

The same are all erotic dreams. Some erotic dreams make people feel that one's own mind has been satisfied to a certain extent and feel very happy. However, there are also some erotic dreams. Due to the specific circumstances that appear in the dreams, the dreamer feels that the sexual dreams they have are more than just I don’t feel happy, and I feel very pressured. For example, erotic dreams that are intolerable to acquaintances, and erotic dreams that reflect the lust of the dreamer’s sense of anxiety.

"The erotic dreams that are intolerable to acquaintances are generally embarrassing to the dreamer. It is an unthinkable dream. Because of intercourse with acquaintances in the dream, this often makes the dreamer suspicious of his dream: I am a sinful person, why am I so despicable? Fortunately, I am dreaming, otherwise...

In fact, this is an unnecessary worry. We have already introduced that sexual dreaming is a person’s psychological need and a normal performance of mature people. Although they are having sex with their acquaintances in their dreams, it does not mean that they have sex with their acquaintances. In reality, they are sinful. The reason why they worry too much is because, on the one hand, sexual dreams have nothing to do with a person’s moral character. On the other hand, not only the dreamers in the sexual dreams cannot choose, but even the ordinary dreamers cannot decide to choose. Who enters his dream. However, in some people's sexual dreams, there are also some sexual objects that can be "named".

A man once dreamed of an old friend (female) asking him to "comfort" her, but he was not sure that the "comfort" she said meant having sex with her (he was happy to accompany her) or something else, so he had to act as a gentleman. Follow her rules of the game. Later, he saw her and a muscular man passing by, leaning against the wall in a fast way and making love wildly . The man felt annoyed by being deceived, so he tried to force her to submit like the sailor, but she broke away from him.

Dream experts believe that if a person dreams of having sex with someone else’s wife, it is undoubtedly a crime of “adultery” as understood by our civilized society, because it means “his soul has had sex with her soul” . But in fact, "her soul" is completely innocent. To say that it is "the crime of mental rape" may be in line with the real situation. In the dream, the appearance of a sexual object that can be named indicates the dreamer's desire for "that person" consciously or unconsciously. Apart from confessing to the world the "depth of the degeneration of one's soul," does "rape of thought" also involve "insulting the other party"?

In short, in dreams, it is really embarrassing to dream about the irritable situation with acquaintances, but you don’t need to care too much. As long as you have your own attitude and take a correct view of the situation in your dreams, married people should see if it is correct. There is a conflict in the relationship between the husband and wife, or the unmarried person has reached the age to marry , and then be careful not to suppress their own sex (generally, the sex dreams are mostly suppressed by the dreamer), and sometimes in the sex dreams their own sexual possibilities Get a certain amount of satisfaction, but don't indulge in your own sexual dreams, you should find ways to distract yourself from this aspect. It is also unscientific to think that if you dream of having a passion for acquaintances, you suspect that your own quality is extremely bad.

There is also a dreamer of erotic dreams. When dreaming, the "protagonist" is not himself, but the "bystander" on or off the field. In the dream, it is not strangers, but people they know, even One's own relatives or spouse. This kind of erotic dream still reflects the psychology of the dreamer. What it wants to express may not be the "satisfaction" of lust, but the "satisfaction" of lust. For example, there is a lady who repeatedly dreams the following dream:

When I returned home from the outside, when I closed the door, I heard strange noises from upstairs. I thought it was a dog flipping clothes upstairs, so I quickly ran up the stairs, but when I arrived at the entrance of the bedroom, I found that the strange noise was originally made by my husband and the female tenant during crazy sex. The two stuck together saw me standing at the door, and the female tenant still smiled: "Why don't you join?"

From the perspective of dreams alone, we may have two explanations: one is that she suspects that her husband has an affair ; the other is that she has the subconscious desire of "two women share one man". However, according to this lady, before she dreamed of this dream, she had run into an unbearable scene where her husband and the female tenant had fornication in the house, so the explanation of "suspicion that the husband had an affair" was in line with her psychology. This recurring erotic dream can be said to be the reappearance of her trauma.

Some people, because their sexual function is not strong, so they are very worried about his (her) significant other being attracted by others. There was a man who had insufficient conscious ability and had a dream like this:

He and his wife went to a banquet. The banquet was held in the open-air garden, and his wife chatted with everyone happily. At this time, a male waiter brought a drink, and he caught a glimpse of the male waiter's lower body being only covered by a small cloth, and the giant penis was clearly visible. He felt a little nervous and annoyed, and blocked the waiter with his body to prevent his wife from seeing the other party's lower body.

This dream revealed the man’s usual worries. He used his body to block the male waiter’s half-exposed lower body, because his subconscious thought that if his wife saw the huge penis, it would be difficult to guarantee that his wife would not be tempted; and This is his heart disease.

After watching the various types of erotic dreams mentioned above, it is not difficult for us to understand that not all erotic dreams are "pleasant". Psychoanalysis believes that the "pornographic concentration" of a dream is inversely proportional to the "strength of depression" of the dreamer. In other words, erotic dreams reflect not only the dreamer’s sexual desires, but also his sexual attitudes. People with more conservative sexual attitudes need sex symbols, and the symbols they choose reflect to some extent their concept of sex.