Ten rules to help you stay away from the sea of ​​suffering

Ten rules to help you stay away from the sea of ​​suffering

I believe many people remember Yue Fei’s "Man Jiang Hong":

Angrily rushed to the crown, resting on the railing. Lift our sight, the sky and shouts, grand, vehement. Thirty fame, dust and soil, eight thousand miles, clouds and moon. Mo Dengxian whitened his young head, empty and sad.

But few people seem to remember the song "After Thirty" by Hou Dejian:

Only after 30 years of age did I understand that those who are coming will come sooner or later; after 30 years of age, I understand. If you want to love, just love...

There are too many things to understand after the age of 30. The so-called "young people look at their faces, middle-aged people look at their breasts, and old people look at their hands." Whether you can keep yourself away from the sea of ​​hardship in life, from the perspective of position, you must pay attention to the conditioning of related life feng shui.

Emotional marriage

How to prevent the phenomenon of "peach blossoms inside the wall and fragrance outside the wall"? How to avoid the peach blossom catastrophe? How can couples have different dreams in the same bed? I remind my friends that you need your numerology and house feng shui to adjust together, emotions and marriage will move towards your hope The direction of development.

Why do people have feelings? It is difficult to speak clearly in words. Human beings are different from other animals because of the strange thing they have emotions. The scientific point of view is the role of human hormones. There will be a physiological influence between people, which stimulates a certain area of ​​the brain to produce hormones and have a good impression of that person. In terms of human nature, there is more contact between people, so naturally there will be more understanding, and tacit understanding will arise. There are things like feelings, even animals, let alone people?

Humans are animals with emotions, they have ideas about things around them, and they are all emotional. I often think about the things in front of me, look forward to a bright future, and of course miss the past years. Especially with age, many things in life are deeply imprinted in the brain, and many beautiful and touching things are unforgettable for a lifetime, especially

How can a person forget that all the feelings he has experienced and possessed are really limited resources? I think if this feeling refers to love alone, then it may be limited.

For example, if two people are together, one person who gives true feelings is very good for the other person, so good that he loses himself, but not only does not get any return, but instead gets incomprehension and even hurt, so slowly the heart will be cold. After that, the feeling will be cold, and I realize that the most worthy of treatment is actually myself. In this way, the feelings for the other person are slowly withdrawn, no longer to invest, no longer to love, but to cherish what is worthy of oneself. From this point of view, the relationship she once gave is a limited resource. However, if we look at feelings, then it is an infinite resource. Because both humans and animals have emotions, no matter whether their emotions are good or bad, even if it is vicious, it is also a form of emotion.

Some reports call those people who are overwhelmed by emotions as "gray people." What they have in common is: working like a spinning top, striving for a decent life; inner desire to retire before the age of 50, Then do something you really want to do; often suffer from insomnia and poor stomach; and even have emotional entanglements with people outside of marriage.

Regardless of whether the relationship between men and women is really a limited resource, no matter whether we have experienced great emotional ups and downs in the past, we need to recognize ourselves and see what exactly affects our beautiful emotions? Analysis from traditional Chinese niche and numerology , I propose the following factors that may cause emotional breakdown between men and women for your reference.

The first incentive: breakfast

Many people don't pay much attention to breakfast. In order to rush to work or get more sleep, they often rush and even give up breakfast. You may say that you are not hungry in the morning, but low blood sugar not only leads to insufficient aura, but also reduces your life and work efficiency, which affects mood and interpersonal relationships, especially emotional relationships. This is probably a lot of white-collar workers. Did not expect

The second incentive: bed separation

A friend wrote: "You help me. I suffer from severe neurasthenia. Sometimes one person can’t fall asleep, let alone two people. So I haven’t slept well since I got married . I can’t sleep, I’m going crazy and often cry in despair. My husband proposed to sleep in separate rooms, but we just got married, will this affect our feelings? But I always can’t sleep and I’m in a bad mood. Not only have people become old, but they have also become a little nervous. Now when I lie down on our bed, I am unexplainably nervous. I even thought about divorce."

Indeed, sleeping in separate beds will affect the relationship between the two. In fact, we can try to eat some foods such as milk to help sleep, or take some other medicines that help sleep. In addition, it is very important to carry out Feng Shui conditioning for the house. Like the above situation, I think there must be a problem with Feng Shui in the house. Sure enough, this friend sent me a layout plan of her house. Except for the missing southwest corner of the room, the headboard of the bed is flush with the west. It’s no wonder that she can sleep well! Not only that, it must have a lot of damage to her health and fortune. Impact. Therefore, I suggested that she quickly adjust the Feng Shui in the room, and at the same time cooperate with the numerology adjustment, within a month, she will be able to fall asleep peacefully.

The third incentive: environment

The environment is divided into a large environment and a small environment. For example, the big city environment, a city can affect a person’s life, and it can also change a person’s life.

Human values, it can even affect the inheritance of people's bones and temperament. Therefore, to make a living in different cities is affected by the aura of different cities, which affects one's emotions. As for our own office and living environment, the impact is even more significant. So we say that if we can’t freely choose the city, then we have to freely choose the office and home environment; if we can’t freely choose the office and home environment, then we must at least do The conditioning of office feng shui and house feng shui. If you don't understand these and don't even bother to adjust, then your feelings, fortune, etc. must be greatly reduced.

Fourth incentive: occupation

Because people have different numerology characters, different people adapt to different professions. If you disregard your numerology, face , and zodiac signs to get a job, then let me tell you: it is very likely that your work is not good and your emotions are still affected. Because occupation has a special impact on emotional life, it not only participates in shaping people's characters, but also affects people's lives.

Most white-collar workers entering and leaving office buildings are financially independent, independent, and have their own requirements for the quality of life; people engaged in medical, cultural, and educational work have relatively simple contacts at work, and it is easier to find the right partner.

And as they grow older, they gradually become more family-oriented; and those who are engaged in performing arts have a rich and colorful life, dealing with all kinds of people, and relatively more variables in their relationships. Therefore, pay special attention to whether your occupation matches your numerology.

Fifth incentive: circle

What kind of friends will form what kind of circle. Everyone's changes are inseparable from the influence of friends' emotional encounters and attitudes towards life. If a person's friends all have various emotional problems, then she will also be affected by these emotional encounters. Therefore, we also need to be cautious in choosing friends to prevent those auras from interfering with our emotional destiny. For example, if you always get together with a group of divorced people, then it is likely to lead to a bad relationship or even divorce.

Sixth Cause: Obstacles

Affective mental disorder is characterized by a significant and lasting uplift or downturn in the mood, accompanied by corresponding changes in thinking and behavior, and repeated attacks. This affective mental disorder is closely related to the living and office environment.

Seventh incentive: electrical appliances

All household appliances that generate magnetic field radiation will affect your fortune and emotions. Therefore, I remind my friends

• Use less TV in the bedroom, preferably LCD.

• The air conditioner blows directly on the head of the bed, causing emotional distraction.

• The computer should be placed on the left side of the desk or desk, that is, the blue dragon position, otherwise, the "white tiger" will come out to compete with your fortune and emotions.

• The mobile phone cannot be placed on the bedside, otherwise your relationship will be in crisis.

Eighth incentive: color

Different colors belong to different five elements. If the five elements of color do not match your five elements, then you are the one who suffers, because your emotions and fortune will be slowly consumed in this color. So, how can you find the color that suits you? Please refer to the content related to color feng shui in this book.

Ninth Incentive: Gifts

From the perspective of physiognomy, any gift has its yin and yang and the five elements. Therefore, it is not that the more expensive the gift, the better, but the appropriate one. I have a friend. 2011 is her boyfriend’s birth year. She wanted to buy a golden bull for him. She asked me if it would be bad and would affect the relationship between them. I checked their numerology and found out that her friend Jinwang, the Five Elements, is definitely not suitable for sending Taurus in this way. Red things should be given out during the birth year, and it is best to wear them on the body, so that it can not only benefit and avoid disadvantages, but also enhance the relationship, and kill two birds with one stone.

Tenth Cause: Housing

The influence of the house on the relationship is obvious. For example, if you have an evil spirit, an evil spirit, an evil evil spirit around your office and residence, then it will definitely affect you through multiple manifestations.

Peach Blossoming Water: If you see a big, foul-smelling pit in the shape of a bow outside the house, it means that the relationship between husband and wife is annoying each other, and even extramarital affairs and peachy incidents have occurred.

Wangqingshui: also called Peach Blossom Dew. Water is the expression of affection. It refers to the water that comes back quickly but does not get together. This refers to the fact that couples gather less and more, and it is difficult to settle down in emotional terms.

Bifurcation water: If you see the left and right bifurcated water flow in the room or the front door (the same is true for the car road), this will also cause the feelings and thoughts of the husband and wife to diverge, and they will often quarrel.

Earth-breaking evil: If the ground and construction work are started for a long time outside the house, you will be guilty of the "earth evil" air in Feng Shui. .

Therefore, friends must pay attention to the influence of various evil spirits on us.

There is a popular saying: "Don't be emotional when you move." However, it is impossible for people to remain emotional for the rest of their lives. The key is when you move and who you move with. Because a person is a product of the environment, the environment, region, circle, etc. will affect a person's feelings.

Offspring

In modern society, there are many common problems of couples: one is long-term marriage and infertility, the other is that it is difficult to give birth to boys and girls, and the third is that women of childbearing age do not have breast milk. In fact, if you check your feng shui in your house well, you may have a problem with your bedroom or bed.

Career wealth

Usually wealth is prosperous with a good career, but some people seem to have good luck with a good career. For those friends whose careers are at sunset, the fortune is naturally worse. How to make your own career and wealth fortune prosper? I suggest that friends may wish to look at their own wealth fortune, and then check whether the kitchen and bathroom of their office and house are suitable. Maybe you live in a leaky house.

Healthy and safe

In fact, the most important thing for happiness in life is health and safety. Back then, Sun Yue's "Wish You Peace" was sung all over the country, and you can imagine how much people attach importance to safety and health. Imagine that if you have money and love, your health is poor. Who wants to? If you want to be healthy and safe, then you have to see whether your numerology is in a bad year or in a prosperous year, whether your house is missing corners and whether the house is surrounded There is a brake, whether your car is in line with your numerology, etc. Health and safety are always reflected in your every move.

Children's education

If the children of the past are "struggling big", then the children of the present are "struggling big". How to make their children develop in an all-round way, learn how to be a good person, learn skills, and title on the gold list is a major concern for every parent. I remind my friends: see where is Wenchang in your house? Look at the location of your child's bed, see what's happening at the door of your own house, and after conditioning, naturally everyone is happy.

Good or bad luck

There is a saying: "During ten years of business turmoil, ten years of part-time work is still a job." Some people have worked hard for a lifetime and are still small employees. Some people keep rising when they open their mouths; some companies make big money, while others close down. These are all related to the position of the office, so it is very difficult to expect good luck in the office without proper feng shui.

Leftover men and women

Needless to say, there are plenty of men and women left. Although there are so many "eight-minute marriages" and online marriages, there are many people who can't get married. The remaining men and women don't want to get married, but the yang house where they live is pure yang and pure yin. What I want to remind my friends is that only after the house feng shui and own numerology are adjusted, can I have a "celestial match" as soon as possible.

Strange disease

In today's society, strange diseases and evils are arrogant, not only incurable and intractable diseases, but also plagues such as swine flu and SARS, which cause panic. In fact, there are many reasons. If you want to stay away from strange diseases, you have to know the number of your five elements and the direction of your house. Buyers need to see whether the house type is suitable for them, and decorators need to know where to start. Otherwise, it’s hard to blame the sickness and evil spirits not coming to the door

Positive wealth and partial wealth

Simply put, positive wealth refers to the money earned through work and doing legitimate business, such as salaries of office workers and the profits of running a business; while partial wealth refers to money obtained through speculation, such as lottery, stock market, gambling, etc. . Therefore, I would like to remind my friends that no matter which line you are doing, or even if you are getting rich, you have to see if you have numerology and whether house feng shui can help you. Otherwise, it will be very hard for you to make money.

Right or wrong

A person's life is full of changes, but as long as you stay safe and keep yourself safe, lawsuits and jail may be avoided. However, injustices also happen occasionally. Therefore, to avoid right and wrong and stay away from lawsuits and prisons, then you have to take a good look at whether you have a numerology star, whether you live in a haunted house, whether your office is on a "ghost gate", and so on.

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